HAPPINESS IS NOT SOMETHING THAT CAN BE CLONED
Written by:
Ellis Ambarita Dickran
In life, we have a choice in how we perceive every experience we encounter. It is crucial for each individual to consciously choose their actions as they navigate life. Adopting a certain approach to life can either shape who we are positively or, conversely, destroy us.
It’s important to understand that you have the power to change your feelings when faced with negative circumstances.
You can also determine how the energy of others will influence your life.
Learning to recognize your emotional reactions will guide you in blocking responses that limit your own energy flow.
This is why you must sit down and analyze yourself to locate the source of these reactions. Listen to the wisdom within, and let it help you open your energy flow so that you can move to the next step.
Energy is the source of everything.
Without energy, nothing functions or becomes active. Energy is an invisible force that drives us to behave in certain ways.
When you truly understand this power, it can transform how you see yourself and others. Understanding your own energy changes how you approach daily life, interactions, and exchanges. Sometimes, it may feel like we have to navigate a complex labyrinth to find the right path. But if we release fear, we allow our energy to guide us through any obstacles life places before us.
We must start listening to our inner soul and utilize the hidden resources available to us.
You must know that you are never truly alone. You only need to awaken and understand your inner awareness. The stars align according to your will. Now is the time to accept it and let it bring inner peace toward happiness. Once the shift in energy begins within you, you will no longer be able to move forward while confining yourself and tearing down barriers.
Simply let go and let your spirit flow. It’s not about doing things differently, but about being who you truly are.
Your journey is to return to your source and discover your true self.
As living, breathing humans, we are more than just the bodies we inhabit. There is spiritual energy present. We can influence others, but we cannot manage their energy. We can only manage our own.
Our understanding of ourselves will change dramatically when we learn to unlock the energy waiting within us—not only in our minds but across the human energy field as a whole.
As you embrace this inner journey, know that you will find inner peace when connecting with others. Release your ego-driven search for answers within your soul. Discover the unseen energy surrounding you through a positive mindset.
Recognizing rejection within yourself will prevent you from expecting others to change. While empowering yourself through your own energy, you may still unconsciously seek others’ approval.
What is common in life is the belief that we have no influence over what the outside world can do to us; but our reactions are merely reactions to ourselves.
You may already possess this power: your response to any situation is yours alone. The actions you choose belong to you. This is why it is so important for your well-being to think before reacting to any unpleasant situation.
There will be times when you must make choices when facing problems along your path. Use your energy to overcome what blocks you. Recognize behaviors that trigger negative reactions. But remember, you are responsible and have the power to choose your response.
Allowing all pressures to control us and making us change our behavior instantly will get us nowhere in life.
For example, your closest people may become less attracted to you if you continuously let negative events disturb your mood or make you react quickly. That person may lose interest because they feel that anything can make you angry or unhappy.
It’s not enjoyable to be around someone like that, right?
You must remind yourself that you are better than that and maintain control of your emotions consistently, even in difficult situations.
Ourself is the power behind our personal choices.
Stop letting others block you from yourself, causing your energy to stagnate.
So, stop letting such things appear in your daily life.
The key to maintaining your energy flow is identifying the source of your problems, acknowledging your reactions, not irrational behavior.
Be honest, face what makes you uncertain, and you can continue life in a better direction.
Success in life depends on how we handle pressure and not letting anything push us to despair. You must be capable of handling anything, because success also brings fair challenges. Learning to overcome difficulties will help you manage the good things to the point where nothing can destroy you or your life goals.
When facing emotional obstacles, we must break the collective energy circuit. This happens when we are open, but others we meet are blocked.
Such encounters break the collective energy flow. We cannot open energy flows for others, but we can control our own. Learning about and trusting yourself will, in turn, influence others to interact positively with you. Working through layers of your energy allows you to uncover patterns that continuously influence you. You will understand what collective energy feels like once you accept your personal truth.
As we continue this life journey, friends, it’s essential not to limit ourselves. Life will improve if you remain open. With slight changes to your patterns and behavior, the Universe opens doors that liberate your soul, allowing you to flow in strong positive energy. Your inner “card” sends messages of trust. This is how the cycle of positive energy flows within us.
I want to emphasize this: stop resisting what you know in your heart must be released. There is a presence within humans that often compels someone to shine in a way others can see.
Believe it or not, you may still be holding back. Sometimes, you let others diminish your energy. This is a struggle you must learn to release. No one can control another’s behavior, no matter how much they want to. But there is a difference in controlling situations.
Your energy is directed toward happiness, but through that tunnel, events arise that you must manage to assure destiny that now is your time to receive the support you seek in life.
At this moment, it’s important to pause and realign yourself, to take control of your own destiny. At this point in life, we must elevate and guide our energy to its proper level because nothing else can move our future toward happiness—except ourselves.
Open your mind and soul; you possess the essential elements to be successful and loved unconditionally, but you must step out of the shadow of your own blindness. You must strive to control every situation, whether good or bad. Waiting for others to provide is the perfect moment to take control, or the opportunity may be lost. Failing to do so drains your mental and physical energy.
Fulfilling your own expectations enables others to follow. Your personal self is the most important.
So prepare yourself for success, and success will follow. Once you set your mind to believe in the good that can come, you will attract the right people. But you must monitor your thoughts, friends.
This is personal energy; whether consciously or not, maintain your channel open for smooth passage. Your personal energy field extends beyond your body. It’s your interaction with the world. This is how the cycle flows in human life in the universe.
When you close yourself off, you become more susceptible to pain, meaning your energy flow is blocked. Without positive energy, you won’t attract the right people into your circle. The right people can change your life. It’s okay to pat yourself on the back because you trust what you are doing. You are strong and stand firm even when you feel you shouldn’t.
From life experience and evaluating testimonies from others around me, I can tell you that all of this has been accounted for in the cycle of human life. The message is to keep moving forward and stop feeling afraid, regardless of the situations you face in life.
You don’t need anyone’s approval to feel comfortable with yourself. Making peace with yourself is the first step if your positive energy drifts away from your behavior. You have a unique gift—a warrior’s power—that you must learn to embrace. Yes, we are all uniquely created as humans.
Be mindful of the messages you send. Open your ears to hear, see, and feel what is happening around you. Your spirit will tell you if something is wrong. These signals cannot be ignored. Your intuition is a gift to uncover truth and find your real opportunities.
If you let fear come between you and your goals, you will be paralyzed. Know that you are stronger than that. This is where complications in relationships or interactions arise. Fear of understanding one another places red flags before forming a connection. Success in a relationship depends on two or more individuals understanding what they will face with you.
Starting on the right foot in a relationship requires awareness of key points about yourself, giving the other person a clear picture of who you are. This is why there’s no need to rush decisions about relationships, collaborations, ideas, ideals, culture, or opinions. Get to know the other person well before labeling them. In doing so, relationships won’t surprise either party with personalities or traits. Learning about someone or a system is not instantaneous—it requires process, analysis, and evaluation. Slowly getting to know each other ensures relationships endure.
Be transparent. If something bothers you, speak the truth, even if it may hurt someone’s feelings. If they truly care about you, they will stay in the journey with you. To be understood and comfortable, first understand yourself. Don’t follow what others say. Be confident in what you want and who you choose to be. The more confident you are, the easier it is for others to understand and reciprocate. No one wants to know someone who is uncertain.
Don’t expect instant understanding from others; help them learn by spending time together. Don’t be too fixated on someone trying to understand you if you give nothing in return. Give them a fair chance before shutting them out. Engage in honest conversations so the other party can adapt and improve the relationship. Successful relationships start with honesty in introductions or first meetings. Eyes reveal truth and intentions.
Surviving in the Universe means not letting anyone or anything distract you from success. Others may judge us unfairly or gossip to feel good. Don’t partake in such negative behaviors; they only create negative energy. Words spoken behind closed doors shouldn’t affect you. Focus on your own path.
People will always find reasons to criticize, even if you give none. Knowing this, why give them time? Whether you act well or poorly, someone will find reasons to speak negatively. These souls gain bad karma by projecting negativity. Be careful in giving opinions versus directly criticizing. Opinions don’t always harm your soul, but mocking or belittling someone reflects poor character. Criticism is positive; mocking is negative.
It’s crucial to give opinions respectfully. Avoid negative speech about anyone, known or unknown—it will affect you. Criticism, done properly, can positively impact all parties. Don’t confront everyone participating in negativity. If people speak about you, ensure your actions are worthy of attention. Hard work and goal achievement prove your value. Words from others are irrelevant if you are confident in yourself. Adopt this mindset to face the world with confidence.
When close people, like a partner or sibling, are involved, it’s different. You may confront them, as they share your personal moments. You have the right to express that their behavior is unacceptable. If they truly care, they will respect you; otherwise, let it go. Never share your life with someone who disrespects you. Your self-worth is paramount.
Working hard toward your goals is essential. Willingness to open your mind to change will carry you forward. Dive into the seemingly impossible and conquer the unusual; this shows you’re on the right path. Knowledge of energy always guides us. Success is tied to communication. To achieve what we want, we must speak, share, and connect. Communication is key to survival.
We don’t have time to fear what others may think. Our presence and voice are needed. Silence is not action toward success or justice. Effective communication attracts support, respect, and accelerates progress. Confidence in expressing feelings and opinions removes doubts. Others, including colleagues and loved ones, will value your clear, honest communication. Develop your communication skills to be heard without aggression or vocal timidity. Integrity is recognized through healthy, positive communication.
Are you open with your thoughts? Verbal expression is powerful. Stay positive, and you’ll attract the right attention. Healthy communication is key.
Throughout life, act with genuine intention, not just words. Avoid self-deception like, “I didn’t mean for this result” or “I didn’t expect this to happen.” Such thoughts block real problem-solving. You will endlessly justify why things changed instead of facing reality, preventing true happiness.
It’s natural not to see your intent immediately. Clear intention is the foundation of personal practice and defining your true goals. Constantly questioning “why me?” keeps you seeking external explanations. Focus on your energy instead. When you understand your role in creating outcomes, opportunities will open automatically.
Friends, it’s a reality: happiness is not far from life; it depends on how we manage our personality through action.
I’ve explained above; reflect and practice this in your life to experience genuine happiness.
Being happy is a choice, but it cannot be engineered.
There is a path to happiness: a positive way, the right route, combined with a healthy, positive mindset, will lead to pure happiness, appreciated and enjoyed beyond words.
Conversely, a negative path, a corrupt route, with pessimistic thinking, will only lead to destruction, not happiness, resulting in disappointment instead.
See you in the next chapter (Chapter 14). I hope this article is useful for all of us and our loved ones.